“Santa waves an empty beer in his plastic hand”
Happy Holidays Y’all!
I have things i want to say, but i’m off to finish making fudge before my folks come in town, and then it’s off to the grandparents ’till christmas. I’m still super psyched about the show next week. We had a meeting/practice last night, which went wonderfully. Our meetings always take three times as long as they need to ’cause we end up goofing around. It’s always a lot of fun, but as meetings they aren’t the most successful. A spent the night last night ’cause her housemates were driving her crazy (odd situation). It’s an interesting situation for me, because it turns out that we are totally on the same page about distinctly not wanting a relationship or any of that complication, but she is also not the sleeping around sort. So i think i have a cuddle and makeout buddy. Which is cool by me. And who is having gender identity issues, but i’m fine with that too (from my side – it only bothers me, as her friend, because she’s all confused and worried about it). (a note on pronouns: i’ve, at the moment, got no idea which to use…i’m not sure if A’s decided which to use at the moment. i’m sticking with ‘she’s a boy’ until i know better than that.)
Well, i still need to wrap presents and go to my youthy xmas party and cook fudge and dinner. La-ti-da. I can’t say if i’ll be online anytime before next year, so happy christmas, merry new year and all that holiday goodness.
Hope y’all have a good one.
Lady Brett
“Happy Holidays Y’all” – Robert Earl Keen
All that holiday goodness to you as well. I hope it’s an enjoyable few days for you. A make out buddy can be a really good thing, especially if you’re both on the same page, and I think you know a lot about gender and identity type things, you might prove to be an invaluable source of support to hir as ze moves through this.